Taking things personally, feeling like a victim, fear of uncertainty, “Nice Guy” syndrome – these are the sort of things you end up with when you believe that there’s a “right” way to get what you want in life.
Someone always feels like they’re not getting enough. Either not enough time or not enough independence. Not enough affection or not enough space. Not enough trust or not enough respect for boundaries.
Sometimes it feels like even if a nuke were dropped on your head, your belly fat would find a way to survive the explosion. This article explains what things like fat and calories are, how your metabolism works, and why anyone can lose weight (nukes optional).